How does it feel to love someone secretly?
To love someone from far?
I guess all of us experience to love someone secretly. And yes it's hard. We can't tell them how much we love them. How hard it is for us to see them in pain. How we missed them each second that they are out of our sight. How much we care for them. How our hearts jump when we see their smiles. The electric thing that we feel when our skin touched. How their existence brought joy to us.
Masarap magmahal, maraming nagsasabi niyan. Eh paano kung hanggang sa malayo lang natin sila pwedeng mahalin? Masarap pa rin ba yun?
Some of us will say "Torpe ka! Bakit hindi mo sabihin yung nararamdaman mo?" Pero hindi lang pagiging torpe ang dahilan kung bakit tayo nagmamahal ng patago. Maaaring may iniingatan tayong pagsasamahan na kapag sinabi natin masisira yung iniingatan natin.
But "what if?". What if Hinihintay ka lang niya. What if mahal ka din niya? Pero "what if" lang yun eh, walang kasiguraduhan. Mahirap sumugal sa laro ng pag-ibig, BUT there are some situations that it's really worth it.
Ang sarap mahalin yung taong karapatdapat, eh kaso may mahal na siyang iba. Ang masakit pa dun eh kaibigan mo yung mahal niya! Ouch naman, ang sakit, nakakainggit na makita siya na masaya sa piling ng iba. Masasabi mo nalang, "I wish I was him/her and you are mine."
Pero ganito nalang ba tayo habang buhay? Laging nagtatago? Ang sarap ipakita sa taong mahal mo kung gaano mo siya kamahal.
It's time for us to fight for what we feel. I think it's worth it to fight for what our heart wants.
Loving someone is not giving up. No matter how many obstacles you have to face as long as you know in your heart that you love him/her, fight for it. Even if it means that you need to be hurt, go on be hurt. Love and hurt are always together. If you don't know how to get hurt, you don't really know how to love. If you really love someone wholeheartedly, being hurt is nothing as long as your loved one is on your side.
So fight for what you feel, malay mo mahal ka rin niya at magkaroon kayo ng happy ending.
Pero kung matatalo ka sa laro ng pag-ibig, huwag ka iiyak o malulungkot ng matagal. Tama na yung isang araw na pagluluksa. Isipin mo yung sakit at pagkatalo na yun ang magiging dahilan para mas maging matatag ka.
In the end, alin man sa dalawa ang mangyari, matalo ka man o manalo huwag mong kakalimutan ngumiti. :)
Sunday, May 6, 2012
THE SWEET SIDE OF SELFISHNESS
I once read a conversation saying:
"A father is dying because of lung cancer."
Dad: Son, when i'm gone tell everyone I died because of AIDS.
Son: But why?
Dad: So that no man could get the chance to touch your mom.
Yes it's kinda selfish but admit it, IT'S SWEET!
Totoo ang sabi nila na kapag mahal mo ang isang tao nagiging madamot ka. Gusto mo lahat ng oras at atensyon niya na sayo, ayaw mo ng may kahati. Oo madamot, minsan nakakainis pero nakakakilig pa rin, kasi maiisip mo na kaya siya nagiging madamot pagdating sayo ay dahil mahal ka niya. Sige nga, ikaw ba gusto mo nang isang tao na magmamahal sa iyo na basta ka nalang ipapamigay at kukunin nalang kung kailan niya gusto. How rude is it, diba.
Kasama na ang pagiging selfish kapag nagmahal ang tao. Sino ba kasi ang gusto ng may kahati? wala diba. ikaw ba gusto mo? Syempre hindi.
Pero kahit gaano pa katamis ang nasa likod ng pagkamakasarili kapag nagmahal ka lagi mong tatandaan, "too much of everything is dangerous".
Baka sa sobrang pagka selfish mo ay masakal siya at mauwi sa break-up. Ayaw mo rin yun diba? So dapat lahat balanse lang. Para walang masakal, walang masaktan, walang break-up. At masasabi pa rin na :
"Behind his/her selfishness about me, i find it sweet because I know it's his/her way to show how much he/she loves me." :)
"A father is dying because of lung cancer."
Dad: Son, when i'm gone tell everyone I died because of AIDS.
Son: But why?
Dad: So that no man could get the chance to touch your mom.
Yes it's kinda selfish but admit it, IT'S SWEET!
Totoo ang sabi nila na kapag mahal mo ang isang tao nagiging madamot ka. Gusto mo lahat ng oras at atensyon niya na sayo, ayaw mo ng may kahati. Oo madamot, minsan nakakainis pero nakakakilig pa rin, kasi maiisip mo na kaya siya nagiging madamot pagdating sayo ay dahil mahal ka niya. Sige nga, ikaw ba gusto mo nang isang tao na magmamahal sa iyo na basta ka nalang ipapamigay at kukunin nalang kung kailan niya gusto. How rude is it, diba.
Kasama na ang pagiging selfish kapag nagmahal ang tao. Sino ba kasi ang gusto ng may kahati? wala diba. ikaw ba gusto mo? Syempre hindi.
Pero kahit gaano pa katamis ang nasa likod ng pagkamakasarili kapag nagmahal ka lagi mong tatandaan, "too much of everything is dangerous".
Baka sa sobrang pagka selfish mo ay masakal siya at mauwi sa break-up. Ayaw mo rin yun diba? So dapat lahat balanse lang. Para walang masakal, walang masaktan, walang break-up. At masasabi pa rin na :
"Behind his/her selfishness about me, i find it sweet because I know it's his/her way to show how much he/she loves me." :)
WHAT WILL YOU CHOOSE?
What will you choose? The friendship that you built for a couple of years or the romantic relationship that is knocking on your door?
Masarap ang pakiramdam na nagmamahalan kayo ng taong mahal mo pero handa mo bang isakripisyo ang pinagsamahan niyo bilang magkaibigan para lang pagbigyan ang tibok ng inyong mga damdamin? O pilit mong susupilin amg umuusbong na pagmamahalan upang protektahan ang inyong pagkakaibigan?
I know that we have different opinions, different answers. But can you accept the consequence behind the decision that you will make? For some they will definitely choose friendship over romantic relationship but for others they are willing to trade their friendship for a romantic relationship.
Sabi nila "true friends are hard to find", totoo naman yun. Alam ko na iba't iba tayo ng opinyon, pero kung ako ang tatanungin paniguradong friendship ang pipiliin ko. Bakit? Contentment, kasi kahit magkaibigan lang kayo pwede niyong iparamdam sa isa't isa yung love, care at importance ng bawat isa kahit walang commitment. So bakit pa kayo susubok sa isang relasyon na hindi niyo alam ang patutunguhan?
Pero ayon naman sa iba "good friendship is a great foundation for a romantic relationship", well it's kinda true. Kilala niyo na ang isa't isa, alam niyo na ang makakapagpasaya sa bawat isa, ang magpapagalit, magpapalungkot at magpapaiyak. Hindi ba ang sarap isipin na yung taong mahal mo eh bestfriend mo rin. Pero nakakatakot, baka kapag dumating yung time na nawala na yung love hindi na rin maibabalik yung pagkakaibigan. Nakakatakot sumugal. Mahirap pumili.
But whatever happens, and you need to choose between this and that, just follow your heart and it will lead you to a real happiness BUT DON'T FORGET TO ALSO USE YOUR MIND. ^.^
Masarap ang pakiramdam na nagmamahalan kayo ng taong mahal mo pero handa mo bang isakripisyo ang pinagsamahan niyo bilang magkaibigan para lang pagbigyan ang tibok ng inyong mga damdamin? O pilit mong susupilin amg umuusbong na pagmamahalan upang protektahan ang inyong pagkakaibigan?
I know that we have different opinions, different answers. But can you accept the consequence behind the decision that you will make? For some they will definitely choose friendship over romantic relationship but for others they are willing to trade their friendship for a romantic relationship.
Sabi nila "true friends are hard to find", totoo naman yun. Alam ko na iba't iba tayo ng opinyon, pero kung ako ang tatanungin paniguradong friendship ang pipiliin ko. Bakit? Contentment, kasi kahit magkaibigan lang kayo pwede niyong iparamdam sa isa't isa yung love, care at importance ng bawat isa kahit walang commitment. So bakit pa kayo susubok sa isang relasyon na hindi niyo alam ang patutunguhan?
Pero ayon naman sa iba "good friendship is a great foundation for a romantic relationship", well it's kinda true. Kilala niyo na ang isa't isa, alam niyo na ang makakapagpasaya sa bawat isa, ang magpapagalit, magpapalungkot at magpapaiyak. Hindi ba ang sarap isipin na yung taong mahal mo eh bestfriend mo rin. Pero nakakatakot, baka kapag dumating yung time na nawala na yung love hindi na rin maibabalik yung pagkakaibigan. Nakakatakot sumugal. Mahirap pumili.
But whatever happens, and you need to choose between this and that, just follow your heart and it will lead you to a real happiness BUT DON'T FORGET TO ALSO USE YOUR MIND. ^.^
Friday, May 4, 2012
MAHAL MO, MAHAL KA BA?
Someone told me, "masarap daw ang magmahal.." I beg to disagree, hindi ba mas masarap magmahal kung mahal ka din ng taong mahal o taong mamahalin mo. Am I Right?
Haay ... Ansarap siguro sa pakiramdam nun no, na yung taong mahal na mahal mo ay mas mahal at higit pa ung binibigay sayo. Sana lang totoo.
Love is not only about feelings but it is also doing good to someone even how bad he or she is.
Accept the reality or the fact, na hindi lahat ng mamahalin mo e mamahalin ka din nng mas higit pa sa nararamdaman or binibigay mo. Sometimes dumadating sa point na ikaw lang or ikaw na lang yung may hawak o nagpapahalaga sa kung anong meron kayo. At dahil nga mahal mo siya kahit give up na give up ka na, or down na down ka na, ayan ka pa rin parang praning na ginagawa pa din lahat para sa kanya. The question is, siya ba ginagawa ba niya sayo yon? The other question is, mahal mo ... mahal ka ba?
Nakakatawang isipin este nakakabaliw isipan na ganon yung relasyon na meron kayo. Walang kasiguraduhan.
Relationship are for two people, not only for you ... Ano yon? Sariling sikap, for what na naging committed kayo kung ikaw lang yung may gusto, ikaw lang yung nagmamahal.
Kung ayaw talaga magwork ng relationship na meron kau, STOP! It's enough, mahirap ipilit ang bagay na hindi talaga pwede. He or she's not worth it to be loved.
Wiat for the one ... There's a right person, in the right time and the right place.
" If you truly Love that person, learn to wait. Maybe you are not meant to be together for today, but meant to be in the near future."
That's Love ... WAITS! :')
“LOVE OR PRIDE?” (What weighs more?)
‘Letting go is the hardest part of all’
-R13-
Love or Pride? Ano nga bang mas
mahalaga?? Sabi nila, to give up is an easy thing but to hold on when everyone
thinks you’d fall apart is a true strength.
I see love when Lola makes coffee for
Lolo every morning, when mom wakes up early in the morning to cook breakfast
for her children, when dad fetch their
kids from school, when sisters call each other to check if there Ok, when people each lunch together despite of their busy schedules, when kuya kiss the hurting finger
of his baby brother and when good friends hang-out despite the distance. This
is LOVE, LOVE is sacrifice … LOVE is everything in this world.
But what is PRIDE?
Pride is the barrier to a forever. Pride
is one of the reasons why there are many loveless and broken hearted people in
this world. Bakit kasi kapag inlove ang isang tao hindi nalang niya aminin iyon
nang diretsa sa taong gusto niya? O kung nagmamahalan, bakit hindi na lang nila
tanggapin ang pagkakamali ng bawat isa at magpatawaran? Pride shouldn’t
overpower love.
Ito yung point na hindi mo alam if dapat
o tama ba yung mga desisyon mo. Sometimes, pride ang pumipigil sa tao na
ipakita ang tunay niyang nararamdaman. It maybe dumb to hear, pero ito yung
totoo.
What if we combine both? BOOM! Pride to Love, Love to Pride. KALOKA.
Love is Life, if you missed Love you
missed Life.
Once na natuto kang magmahal kasama na
din sa maga consequences nun na dapat mawala ang pride. It’s not totally na
mawawala pero sabi nga one can give way to the other partner to prevent any
misunderstanding.
Loving someone is like exposing yourself
to hurt. Masasaktan at masasaktan ka. There’s just certain things to do, kahit
ayaw mo, kahit masakit, hindi makukumpleto
yung salitang LOVE kapag walang HURT. Ano yun JOKE? kumbaga kambal na talaga sila.
When you’re important to a person, he or
she will always find a way to make time for you, with no excuses, even his/her pride
will be forgotten.
“UNDRETURNED LOVE”
What is “Unreturned Love”? Can we say
that it is similar to a one sided love affair? Or is it a different kind of
love?
Unreturned
love, ito yung
nagmamahal ka pero hindi kayang suklian ng taong mahal mo yung ibinibigay mong pagmamahal
sa kanya. And YES we can say that Unreturned Love and One sided love affair are
similar. Parehong nagmamahal pero walang pagmamahal na natatanggap.
When can we say that we are in unreturned
love situation?
Ito yung napamahal ka ng kusa sa isang
tao kahit wala naman siyang ginagawa para mapa-ibig ka. Naiimpress ka kahit
hindi siya mag pa impress sayo. Nahuhulog ka sa kanya kahit wala namang
tumutulak sayo ang masakit lang dito ay yung tuluyang ka nang nahulog pero
nalaman mong hindi ka niya kaya saluhin kasi may iba na siyang hawak sa mga
bisig niya at hindi niya yun kayang bitawan para lng saluhin ka.
Pwede din na alam niya na may gusto ka sa
kanya at lalo pa siyang gumawa ng paraan para lalo kang magkagusto sa kanya.
Nagpapa impress siya para mapansin mo siya lalo. Nagpapakita siya ng motibo
sayo. Ang resulta minahal mo na siya ng sobra tapos malalaman mong may iba nang
nagmamay-ari ng puso niya at hindi ka niya kayang mahalin ng higit pa sa isang
kaibigan o kapatid at sasabihin niyang hindi niya alam na iyon napala yung
nagagawa niya sayo na hindi niya sinasadyang paibigin ka ng sobra sobra. Yung
sobra sobrang pagmamahal na kayang magdulot sa iyo ng sakit na higit pa sa
sobra.
O kaya naman sa sobrang pagmamahal mo sa
kanya hihilingin mo sa kanya na huwag umalis sa tabi mo, na huwag ka niyang
iiwan dahil hindi mo kaya. Tutuparin niya yung hiling mo hindi ka niya iiwan
dahil kahit papaano mahalaga ka sa kanya. Pero kahit hindi ka niya iniwan at
magkasama kayo alam mo sa sarili mo na walang pagmamahal sa pagsasama niyo na
alam mo din sa sarili mo na mas masakit pero pipilitin mong huwag indahin dahil
mas hindi mo kaya kapag nawala siya. Ang ending hindi ka niya talaga kayang
mahalin hindi ka lang niya maiwan kasi mahalaga ka sa kanya pero malaki ang
pagkakaiba ng pagpapahalaga sa pagmamahal. Alam mo sa sarili mo na mas mahalaga
sayo ang kaligayan niya sa kaligayan mo kaya papalayain mo siya at mamahalin
nalang siya sa malayo.
Many say that cupid is so unfair. Minsan
namamana siya pero yung isa lang ang pinana niya ang resulta isa lang ang
nagmamahal. Eh hindi naman pwede sa
isang relasyon yung ganun. Let’s compare it to tango. As the saying says, “it takes two to tango”. hindi ka pwede
mag tango ng mag-isa lang. Paano ka sasayaw nang naaayon sa tugtog, nang
maganda kung wala ang ka partner mo. Relationships are for two people not only
for you. Loving someone who can’t love you back is like dancing without a song,
singing without a rhythm or flying without wings. Yes it hurts, that’s a fact.
If you are in unreturned love situation
right now and you want to feel the true happiness just follow these four easy
steps:
1. LET GO
2. ACCEPT
3. MOVE ON
4. SMILE
Thursday, May 3, 2012
The Meaning Behind ...
There
is no flower that has been revered and celebrated as much as the rose.
As the archetypal flower and the definitive symbol for love and
appreciation, the rose has endured in its beauty and significance for
hundreds of years, inspiriting people throughout history.
In addition, the rose is perhaps the only flower that has so many
diverse meanings. Our comprehensive guide to the colors and meanings of
roses is your resource for rose interpretation.
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Love
& affection, Romantic & Abiding Love, True Love, I Love You,
Desire, Courage & Passion, Congratulations, Job Well Done, Respect
& Appreciation, Honest Beauty, Courage & Passion, Bliss to
Marriage
The Meanings of the Numbers of Roses Using flowers, especially roses to convey messages dear to the heart has been a tradition established over several centuries. And as the complexity of the emotions increased, people sought ways to add new meanings to flowers. Some flowers are given in various combinations to depict totally different meanings. There are also meanings hidden in the number of roses exchanged between people. Some of these meanings have been derived from visual significance, while some have caught on from popular stories and myths. Our comprehensive guide to the numbers and meanings of roses is your resource for rose interpretation.
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